Wednesday, November 25, 2009
So I have been MIA (missing in action) for quite a while now your all probably wondering what happened to me. All I'm wondering is did you miss me??? I'm hoping so... =]
Well I have been doing a bit of soul searching as you do and a little more growing up. Things are looking up, I'm starting to make friends- most of them are boys and there nice to look at which is a bonus... I love the company, mostly it’s by text but it’s nice to just be able to talk to people...
Now I have a question for you all, I’m hoping maybe you can help me out...
I have been doing some TAFE courses and there is a new guy in the class and he has a major crush on me, you can practically see it from mars. Now after TAFE he asks me "what are you going to do now?” So I have been telling him that I'm going straight home, now home is a fair drive so its a good enough excuse for us to not have to hangout. But if I go down the street and I bump into him it’s going to be... Well strange and I don't want to hurt his feelings.
I’m not into him and don't find him attractive physically or mentally. I don't want to lead him on or get into any awkward positions and I have no idea what to do...
Do you have any ideas that might help me out?
2 comments:
Hmmmm, this is a hard one! You can just say straight up that (1) you're just out of a painful relationship, and I don't want to get involved now; (2) you're just starting a relationship with somebody; (3) you're not interested in a relationship; or (4) "honestly, you're not my type." It's terribly lying, I know, but sometimes, it's the only thing that'll work! Good luck, but enjoy your Thanksgiving!
You need to be honest and direct otherwise you'll be setting yourself up for disaster! Maybe tell him you'd prefer to keep your friendship within tafe and that's it.
I don't think saying your out of or in a relationship will do you any favours as it may backfire when Mr Right does come along.
Blessings
-x-
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