Heart-on-display

I have been doing a lot of thinking lately and it seems that the topic of body language keeps popping into my mind. Maybe it’s because I see it every day and everywhere.

Just today I was watching our two dogs they were showing aggression towards each other. It was subtle at first and then turned into a fight to become “top dog”.

Now it’s not just in animals, I see and read the body language of people when ever I am around them.

Some times it’s clearer to read than others but it is always there.

(Well unless maybe you happen to be talking to someone who is paralysed.)

Just the other day I saw someone and there body language was so clear it just about hit me in the face.

For example there is one person I know that doesn’t like me for some reason I don’t know why. Well on this occasion he happened to be sitting next to me. Usually I will talk to him but this day he didn’t want me to. Now he didn’t say this in fact he didn’t talk to me or say anything at all in my direction, he didn’t look at me and he sat with his back to me which was basically him putting up a wall. So he made it pretty clear that I wasn’t to talk to him and just through body language.

Not all body language is so negative, if someone wants to talk to you or they are “into you” they should make eye contact, they might move there body slightly so that they are facing you more directly and maybe even unconsciously mimic what you are doing.

Ok so I have done a little research in to body language, but it doesn’t hurt to know these things. The more you know the better equipped you are to take on the world I say.

This topic doses make me wonder, so I have a question for you.

Do you notice body language? If so can you read the body language that you are seeing?

Once upon a time there was a girl who was madly attracted to a boy. She was not slim or slender by any means. She felt as though no one would ever fall in love with her. She was 16 and had never been kissed.

The boy was beautiful when the girl looked at him she thought that he might be an angel. Others told her that he should never have been born and she felt the burn of anger in her heart when they said it.

I have been fooling around with this guy he's nice enough. But I thought that he just wanted sex. So I told him that I needed more and that I wanted to find someone and fall in love.

I'm pretty sure that he doesn't love me but he's the sort of guy that you wouldn't know. We don't really hang out a lot.

He seems to think that he can give me the love that I need, but I'm not sure that he realizes that sex is not love. So I asked that and I think that I may have offended him.

I tried to 'exit' gracefully but apparently not a good day for it. He kept pushing, typical boy I suppose "sex on the brain". Thankfully we were only talking via text.

Well what do you think- sheep or wolf in sheep's clothing?

My social along with my love life basically do not exist.


I don't drink, smoke or do drugs, I live in the country and went to a really small school which was in the middle of nowhere. I have been overseas for a year and coming back have no friends.

So I'm here as I want to make changes to my life. I want to fall in love with someone that is worth the effort and I thought that putting my "Heart on Display" would make a good topic for this blog.


I know its corny but I want to find the love of my life. I know I'm going to need some help along the way so if you feel you can help me out then leave me a comment.